Monthly Archives: June 2013

Ideas are like babies

Like a baby, an idea starts out pure and full of hope.

But a baby has to learn to crawl, then walk, then talk.

A baby needs to grow. And the only way it can grow is with people.

In the same way, an idea is nothing without its parent. It is frail and vulnerable. It cannot survive by itself. It will quickly vanish if its parent doesn’t nurture it.

But an idea needs more than its parents. It needs people. A person raised in isolation is not a healthy person. A person gains independence after tumbling in the real world.

In the same way, an idea needs to be pushed and bullied and endure and evolve. Only then can it mature.

Only the ideas that survive time and changing moods and hate are the ones that deserve to live.

So if you have an idea, it’s worthless until you do something about it. And then it’ll still be worthless, until you get over yourself… and let it play in the playground with the rowdy kids.

Q & A: “I don’t understand, but I’m too polite to say it”

I think it will be good if contributors have a chance to ‘publish’ or ‘make public’ their contributions. This will help create some form of privacy and also allow more publicity/ interest. At the end of the day, you don’t want to make things too complex as it will put people off. That is one of my main concerns about it at this stage. It’s a bit like a blog… a bit like a fluffpet… a bit like a RPG. If you get what I mean!

Thanks. These comments are valuable as I whip the place into shape. By the way, all contributions are “published” and “public”. I’m probably going to push the “pet” element into the background so it doesn’t distract new guests.

Yes, I agree it has to be simplified. So far it’s been a laboratory for a bunch of ideas I had. In the coming months, I will be trimming, distilling and simplifying things.

As they say, less is more, and more is lazy. I confess, I’ve been lazy. So, feedback like yours is what helps me decide “how” and “what” to clean up.

If you don’t mind, please create a Persona and make a contribution. Don’t worry about writing anything serious or breaking anything. (Idea: you can create a ____ Room for us).

There are some new interactions I want to discuss with you, but you can only see it after you create a post.

Without the dirty work, the good work can’t happen

Before any interesting work can happen, you first need a certain amount of plumbing. You first have to do the dirty work.

This takes a certain amount of grit. Because the mountain of poo may be high. The swamp may be full of gators. And it may be too foggy to see the green valley and blue waters on the other side.

Press on.

Eventually, you’ll get to a place where conversations can take place, and ideas can blossom.

The challenge to make the Generic feel Special

“When you try to please everyone, you will please no one”

When I dropped my son at “school” today, He got into a toy bus his teacher brought. It was a light collapsible frame painted to look like a yellow school bus. He drove his friends around with it.

Mom wasn’t there, so I took a video because I thought she’d like it. Smartphones are a little too convenient for  these things. After we said goodbye, I thought – that was a moment that was special to just our family.

How do you make something manufactured for many, feel special to one person? How can you make it feel as special as a mom receiving a photo of her son?

Q & A: The chicken and the egg problem

I’m still bumming around the Inn. I am exploring with part of my academic/ analytical hat on. Firstly, I think the scribes are well written and welcome the guest. However, I do not see sufficient content to attract my interest or understanding on what the Inn is really meant to be. I get drips and drabs… more vibes of what you are trying to create but as a guest, I want something to mentally grasp upon. Perhaps some content. Perhaps something or someone ‘else’ at the Inn who can stir my psyche. Perhaps it is useful to have some faithful ‘founders’ lead the way by example or at least have some ‘open source’ content. An example is if I write my thoughts on ‘disease’ or ‘clinical care’ and then have this as a string for someone to grasp on. The question then is how does this defer from a blog site? If the bazaar is about encouraging talent, maybe you can post some art or music of yours to tease guests (or once again, provide a mental anchor or thread).

Thanks. I expect nothing less from a scientist.

I agree with the lack of content. Since you’re the first guest, there is, in fact, zero content 🙂 I specifically wiped the slate clean before you arrived. No, I wasn’t trying to make it difficult for you. You just happen to enter at the early early stages… it’s so fresh even my wife hasn’t had a chance to see it yet! (Our baby is still waking up every few hours.)

What you astutely noticed is the “chicken and egg” problem: Good content attracts people, who create more content, which attracts more people, which cultivates more content, etc.

But in a new system, the chain has to start somewhere. In this case, we’re starting with a state of “zero content” and 2 users (you and me). I’ll be inviting more people as time goes on, but slowly, because this is like a new, untested ship fresh out of the shipyard. I want to make sure it’s seaworthy before we fill the ship up to capacity and sail across the world on risky adventures. It’s like a baby still learning to walk, and it will still trip and bump its head and cry.

So, yes, what you see is a void. That’s because the people to create the content aren’t here yet (except you).

But first, it is important to create a unique place that breeds a unique nature of content and attracts unique people. E.g., most places elsewhere are created for children (Millienials — the first generation of people who can’t comprehend a world without the Internet), and there aren’t many interesting social places for educated adults.

Patience. When M starts getting some free time, I’m going to invite her too. It has to start somewhere, so it starts with a few of us. Slowly we’ll invite others.

To start, I’m seeding it with imagination, and people like you. I will be very picky about who I invite, because the only way to create a place where good content can flourish is by inviting winners, not losers.

BUT — the fact that you are thinking about writing your thoughts on “disease” or “clinical care” is encouraging to me. It tells me that even with nothing, this place gave a little spark for you to imagine writing about those topics. Because, think about it, how many other places can you have those sort of conversations, off the record?

How it’s different from a blog? That is a good question. There are differences, and I’ll answer that better in the future. Probably with a demonstration.

But for now, try this as a simulation:

  1. Create a persona
  2. Find the room “Test”
  3. Create a new, not-so-serious post, just as a test
  4. Reply to the one I created called “Straandbeest”

I’ll then interact with you to point you to a few unique features of the Inn.

Yes, I agree, it is valuable to have some faithful “founders”. And that’s why I invited you 🙂

I know, it’s a little lonely still. But patience. I don’t know how it’s going to play out yet. Maybe nothing will come out of this. That’s okay. I had an idea last year and I got tired of mulling over it, so I decided to do something about it and made this.

What I do know is that I don’t want to flood it with a herd of faceless people.

So over the next few months, I will work out the kinks, build, renovate, adapt, etc. And I will recruit others slowly — I have a few people in mind.

How to disclose personal information and remain private

A headline today reads: “Obama Defends NSA, Says America Has To Make Choices Between Privacy And Security”. This is in the wake of the revelation that government programs sweep up 3 billion phone calls a day and amass Internet data from U.S. providers, supposedly to thwart terror attacks.

Because of the fear of the few, the many are punished.

Deer have killed more people than sharks. And deer have killed more people than terrorists.

But fear is irrational. And fear makes slaves of the fearful.

The interesting thing about privacy is, the data by itself isn’t intrinsically dangerous. What makes data dangerous is when it is possible to trace data back to the owner of the data.

For example, would you tell a stranger where you live?

Of course not. But on the other hand, we all live somewhere. We all have addresses.

Just the nature of you going about your business somewhere implies that you live in the area. But that’s still okay, because if you tell someone you live in San Francisco, California, you’re declaring that you’re one of 8.3 million people who live in one of the homes in the city. This knowledge of your address by itself isn’t special. Everyone lives somewhere and all homes have addresses.

The problem comes when someone has the key piece of information linking you with your address.

This decoupling of data from identity is the fundamental principle of the Inn. It is safe to reveal your secrets because The Inn never sees the key piece of information that puts your privacy at risk:  the thread that connects to who you are.

When starting from A, you often won’t see C until you get to B

Democracy sucks. Because the majority is always wrong. If America were a true democracy, Justin Bieber would be president.

After all, more people tune into him than they do for the current president, or the news.

So when designing the Inn’s interactions, it’s important to have ways to make sure everyone does NOT have equal power or privilege.

There has to be a competition. A natural selection for the fittest to win. Any other non-organic or artificial method will produce artificial biases, like bailouts propping up a phony economy that ought to fail.

The Inn’s newly installed natural selection mechanism is the 30-day Leaderboard. Each Room will have a Leaderboard. Members climb the leaderboard by the number of positive responses they receive for their Stories. Not views. Responses. 

And members at the top of the leaderboard earn privileges to make changes in a Room.

It’s kind of a nifty, happy by-product I didn’t forsee when designing the leaderboard. If  there are no leaders, the Room is a democracy where anyone can rule. When leaders emerge, the leaders have authority for as long as they can remain in power. And the power comes from “votes” cast by fellow members.

Amanda Palmer said, “We can only connect the dots that we collect.” And that’s why we should never strive to be perfect, because we can never have all the dots to start. Instead, we just have to get moving.

“Show up, show up, show up, and after a while the muse shows up,too.” – Isabel Allende